lgbtqinclusiveplanning
Can chosen families gather at splash pads?
Quick answer
Absolutely. Splash pads are public space and any group of adults and kids — biological, legal, or chosen-family — can gather. No special documentation required. Bring towels, snacks, and the same supervision rules as any group.
Chosen families — close-knit groups of adults and kids who function as family without legal or biological ties — gather at splash pads exactly like any other family. The pad is public space, no documentation required. Bring matching shirts if you want, set up base camp at a few benches, share snacks, supervise the kids collectively. Within the LGBTQ+ community, chosen-family gatherings often include several queer adults and the kids of one or two parents in the group, with all adults sharing supervision. The kids think of all the adults as 'aunties,' 'uncles,' or by first name. No splash pad staff will question a chosen-family configuration; they're not there to police family structure. If you're meeting with a large chosen-family group (8+ adults), pick a pad with a pavilion or large bench area you can claim early. Pride-month and rainbow-themed splash days create natural gathering opportunities. Splash pads are inherently inclusive when families show up confident and prepared.