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How do families cope with splash pads during field exercises?
Quick answer
Field exercises (2-4 weeks where the service member is in the field with limited contact) are like mini-deployments. Keep the splash pad routine going, save up photos and stories to share when contact returns, and lean on milspouse community for company.
Field exercises β JRTC, NTC, JMRC rotations, or smaller unit-level field problems β disrupt family rhythms because the service member is gone but technically nearby, with sporadic phone access. Splash pad routines help bridge the absence. Continue the regular splash pad day. Save 1-3 best photos per visit in a dedicated phone album to share when contact returns. Take short voice-memo notes of funny kid quotes the service member would appreciate. Avoid expecting daily contact during the field exercise β texts may come at 2 AM or not for 5 days. When phone contact returns, send the photo album as a single batch with quick captions. Many milspouses use the field-exercise period to hit splash pad meetups they've been meaning to try. Watch kids for cumulative stress; field exercises feel similar to deployments to little ones, especially under age 5. The post-field reunion deserves a calm splash pad day a week or two later, not the day of return.